You know, it's amazing how, while we can stand against the abuses and awful things, we can also be blind when they apply to us.
Agatha is right here. Full stop. Phin has often similarly been right about how awful others situations have been. Yet… It constantly feels like she's going around softening the blows, unsubtly downplaying things. It hurts.
I've met people who did that IRL, and have been very fortunate not to have had to do so myself, but it hurt to see -_-